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Tuesday, September 2, 2008

This week's topic:. . . "Help!" (John Lennon, circa 1966.)

Here is a simple selling technique that can produce very powerful results. It goes something like this.

The next time you run up against a particularly tough prospect or simply want to further engage a current customer, step back . . . and ask him for his help or advice.

"Mr. Prospect, may I ask you for some advice? I am trying very hard to establish myself as an outstanding service provider for my clients. You are obviously an expert in this area. What would you be doing for prospects or customers if you were me?"

Then pause, and be prepared to listen. Chances are you are going to get a virtual gold rush of information! Here's why:

For the most part, people love to give advice. In our culture, when someone asks us for advice or help, it is an almost irresistible gut reaction to respond.

But it gets even better for us as salespeople. You see, "buyers" put themselves in a purchasing position because they love power and control. So how do you think it makes them feel when you ask them for advice? You guessed it . . . powerful and in control.

By the way, this technique can be especially effective for younger salespeople who are attempting to establish rapport with an older buyer. Most of us share a very strong mentoring instinct and we often have kids of our own who are out in the market trying to break in. When asked politely and sincerely, it feels good to help young people "learn the ropes."

Communications Tip:

When asking someone for help, be sure to start the sequence by addressing his name: "Mr. Smith, may I . . ." or "John, may I . . ." Tests show that your chances of a positive response increase dramatically when you personalize the appeal.

Remember, this is a subtle tactic and is not meant to substitute for a good value proposition or strong selling skills. But I have used it occasionally to crack some pretty tough nuts, and while there are always buyers who enjoy being curmudgeons, I have found that many more are happy to engage when asked for guidance!

Last but not least, if you are fortunate enough to receive a buyer's advice, it sets up a perfect opportunity for a follow up thank-you note – handwritten, of course.

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